Parents: Amplifying the Safety Net
When parents have two kids, their financial responsibilities increase significantly. It's advisable for the main earner to have a life insurance policy worth 25 times their yearly earnings—approximately \(15 million for someone making \(600,000 a year—so that it can support college savings, mortgage payments, and living expenses until the children become adults. It’s also wise to include a “dual-career disability rider,” which provides income support for both parents in case one suffers an injury; this is essential for families where both parents work. For those running their own businesses, obtaining “business overhead expense” insurance is crucial to keep operations running smoothly, covering salaries and rent even if you’re unable to work, thereby protecting the income that supports your two kids.

Siblings: Avoiding One-Size-Fits-All
Treating children the same way can lead to problems. A 5-year-old and a 10-year-old have different requirements: the younger child may need a "pediatric wellness rider" for services like speech therapy or early help, while the older one may require "teen accident coverage" for activities such as sports or driving. It's wise to consider "age-tiered" life policies—$1 million for the younger child (which secures lower rates) and $2 million for the older child (reflecting greater future earning possibilities). Insurers often provide a "sibling discount" of 15% when covering two kids, but it’s best not to bundle plans; instead, tailor each child’s policy to fit their health needs and interests.

The “Care Coordination” X-Factor
Having two kids results in twice the health-related mayhem. Consider adding a “family health concierge” service, where a personal nurse is assigned to oversee the appointments for both children, as well as specialist visits and urgent care needs. This service is especially helpful during emergencies, such as when a toddler has an ear infection while a teenager suffers a broken arm, ensuring that treatments are not missed. Additionally, some insurance plans offer “backup childcare” coverage, which pays for nannies if both parents are occupied with a child in the hospital—something that regular plans often neglect.
Legacy and Liability: Expanding the Umbrella
A $30 million umbrella policy is essential for larger families, protecting against specific risks, such as a playground accident at your residence involving your children and their friends, or a lawsuit resulting from a family vacation mishap. Consider including a “trust funding rider” with the main income earner’s life insurance. This rider specifies that part of the payout goes into a trust that provides money when each child turns 30, which helps avoid unequal distributions. For families with connections across the globe, “multi-jurisdictional liability” coverage offers safety, no matter if you are in London, Miami, or Beijing.

Adaptability: Growing with Your Family
Review your coverage each year and make adjustments based on age changes. Once the oldest child begins driving, increase the umbrella policy to include car accidents. When the youngest starts school, change the coverage from “toddler wellness” to “educational therapy.” As the children approach college, convert some of the main earner’s term life insurance into “permanent” policies, which can provide tax benefits for their inheritance.
Families with two children require insurance that is both comprehensive and detailed—protecting the family unit while addressing individual needs. For wealthier families, it goes beyond just covering expenses; it’s about providing both children with the same level of security, opportunities, and reassurance, regardless of life’s challenges.